How Come “Healthy Eating” Gets Weird When You’re Lonely
There are days when eating a full meal just feels... like too much. Not because you’re not hungry, but because you’re tired, or the silence feels too loud, or you just don’t want to deal with dishes. And maybe that’s fine once in a while. But if it keeps happening—skipping meals, grazing on random snacks, or just not caring about what you eat—it might not be about willpower. It might be about loneliness. It turns out, being socially disconnected doesn’t just affect your mind—it also messes with your appetite, your cravings, even how your body processes food. A 2022 paper published in Nature Aging found that chronic loneliness is linked to changes in brain regions involved in both social behavior and food-related decision-making. In other words, when people feel alone, they’re more likely to seek out fast, hyper-palatable food—not because they’re lazy, but because their brain is low on dopamine and looking for something, anything , to feel good again. ...